This is a photo of me and Craig, a boy I used to date and who I am still "friends" with. In all honesty this photo is the one I chose because I am currently extremely agitated with him. I tend to give my all to friendships and after whatever we had ran it's course I stuck it out and have been there for him no matter what he needs. I've written papers, gone to dinners, driven him home, helped him get out of sticky situations, listened to him pour his heart out over lost love, etc...and I feel that the same courtesies have not been returned to me. We are in a one sided friendship that comes at convenience and it makes me very sad.
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so go ahead and sever your ties, then? ali & i don't talk with any regularity. i haven't heard from her since shortly after we got dinner this last january, when she messaged me about how she felt awkward- i explained why i figured that was, and she didn't respond. we don't speak much, and i'm perfectly fine with that. it took me a long time to let her go, but i'm happy that i have.
that would work...but I happen to work with him. sooooo I see him EVERYDAY haha. but things have gotten a lot better, as in me cutting off most outside communication with him.
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